There is A Strong Buff Dude Living inside you... Why Both Men and Women Seek Out Masculinity

By Betti Halsell

Masculinty is a genderless entity. There are men and women seeking masculinity for power, confidence, and freedom. I've been told a couple times that I have “big dick energy,” this has always resonated with me as the ultimate compliment. Masculinity is not just reserved for boys who want to become men, or women who feel more comfortable as men, or anything in between. The energy labeled Masculinity has no gender, it's not genetically owned by men, the same can be said about femininity. Women can be masculine and still live in the nature of femininity, and vice versa. In the book “The Source for Self-Regard” by Toni Morrison, there is a passage explaining the fluid energy of masculinity. “Man is the measure of Man,” was explained as “ Masculinity is very much the measure of adulthood.” As I continue to grow into the woman I want to be, I find myself feeling the vibes of confidence, integrity, and I begin to hear my voice hold a deeper insight and authority. To be masculine, is to establish yourself. Here are four other books that can help you ignite the buff dude energy inside yourself.

Gender Physics: Unlock The Energy You Never Knew You Had To Get The Results You Want

“ Betty-Ann Heggie demonstrates how Masculine and Feminine Energies are present in every one of us and how those who adopt Gender Physics will let go of established stereotypes, play to their strengths, and unlock energy they never knew they had to”

Joining Forces

“Joining Forces will help readers discover the masculine and feminine characteristics that connect, unite, and restore us—traits that men and women alike can and do express. By joining our masculine and feminine strengths, we restore our own souls, our creative energies, and our own true, essential natures.”

The Law of Balance: Thrive By Balancing Your Inner Masculine and Feminine

“The author calls it the Law of Balance: the closer you bring your inner masculine and feminine into a state of balance and harmony, the more you will thrive.”

Sacred Reunion: Love Poems To The Masculine and Feminine - An Anthology

“his beautiful anthology of love offers an exquisite collection of poems that honor the Masculine and Feminine energies in each of us. With its call and response style, this sensuous dance through poetry will unite you back into wholeness and into your own inner Sacred Reunion with love. Receiving it will help heal your heart and expand your capacity to love and be loved…”